
I have wanted to join a Pee Wee Herman support and discussion group, but have never found one. Now that I'm old enough to be gratefull that I'm still able to get off that way it is good to find a place where I can admit my 'weakness". Please withhold by name and e-mail. Use Carl Croel
Are you having a great time? If you are a woman or man over sixty years of age, I invite you to contribute your writing to STILL DOING IT, a book to be published by the Down There Press. Many people are surprised to learn that older women and men have sex at all. Sure there are some inhibitors to having active sex lives as we get older, but a lot of us overcome these obstacles or never have encountered them. This year, my sixty-first, I want to let those coming after us (men and women in their thirties, forties and fifties) know that sex can get better as we age, or that it's never too late to start a happy sex life, reversing the downward spiral of doing a little (or a lot) less each year. At this time I am particularly interested in contributions from women. Contributions from couples writing individual perspectives on their relationship are welcome as long as both partners are over 60.
Please write on any aspect of your current experience that interests you. You may have one partner, or several; you may be gay, straight, or bisexual; you may have been in a committed relationship for decades or may have met someone new just recently. You need not even be having sex with a partner at all - I am interested in your masturbation and fantasy sex life as well.
If you need help getting started, you might simply describe your current sexual activity: with whom you do it, how often, where, and which are your preferred sexual activities. Then please describe any of the following that apply to you: how you have started again after a "dry spell," overcome physical limitations, dealt with family reactions to your sexuality, or challenged expectations about or prohibitions against older people being sexual. To what do you attribute your healthy interest in sex? You might also choose to write about how you cope with stereotypes, boredom or routine, if any of these have bothered you.
Just tell me how you're still doing it! If you have never written a story or essay, don't worry. -I am interested in your experience, not your writing skills. If you wish to remain anonymous, you may use a pen name. If your story is story is selected, you will receive a few copies of the book and a small payment. Stories will not be returned to you unless you enclose a SASE.Deadline: ASAP! Book is almost ready go to the publisher, mid-February, 1999.
Please send your contributions, up to fifteen pages, to: Joani Blank, PO Box 8263, Emeryville, CA 94662 Or submit your piece by email to jeblank@ic.org
Joani Blank, MA, MPH, is the founder of Good Vibrations and Down There Press in San Francisco; She has been writing, editing and publishing books about sex for 22 years. She turned sixty on the Fourth of July, 1997.
Below is an example of a brief announcement that has appeared in print ads and other internet sites (I have also posted somewhat more lengthy announcements which have included the above information as well):
Participants Needed for Lifespan Sexuality Study
Researchers at the University of Utah are seeking men and women age 35 and
above (and especially those 50 and older!) of all sexual orientations to
participate in an anonymous survey of human sexuality. Included in the
survey are demographic questions and questions about sexual behavior,
romantic relationships, and sexual orientation across the lifespan. The
questionnaire should take approximately 10-40 minutes to complete,
depending upon a person’s age and sexual history. Interested individuals
can complete the questionnaire online at
--http://www.softsolutions.com/survey[*Hyperlinked*], or call
(801)474-0892 to receive the survey by mail. Again, participation is
completely anonymous. Thanks for your help!
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Response from Webmaster: Many who have had a heart attack suffer with the fear of doing something that stresses the body -- like having sex. Some doctors are aware of this and advise patients to go home and have sex. When the doctor says that Mevacore doesn't cause a low libedo -- he may be right. But he should have advised of the mental conserns it can cause a heart attack victim where they are afraid to engage in intercourse. And some can become sexually dysfucntional just because of the mental state.
I suggest you obtain a product called "Natural Sex" that is a natural aphrodisiac. It sells for $29.95 per bottle for a 30-60 day supply plus $4.50 s/h. I have elected to offer this to seniors so for further information click HERE and how to order. It's good for men and women. You should experiment. It could help your husband get over the mental concerns. If not you should find a doctor that is fully aware that exercise (including sex) is good for the person after having a heart attack according to what I have heard. If anyone buys and trys Natural Sex, I would like to hear of the results. I don't want to be offering something that doesn't work.
RESPONSE: - H. your condition is called "retro-ejaculation". Than is when the ejaculated goes into the bladder instead of being ejaculated out the penis. It is much more common that most folks think and it is NOT harmful in any way. Your moving into a homoerotic experience is interesting. How was this accomplished. Did you start it or did your massuse? I am glad you are so open about this and that you must also be comfortable with it. I am sure others reading this with the same problem you have must feel better about it. robbenz@intrepid.net
Webmaster response: Sounds like a good idea. If you wish to send in thoughts on this please do. If you don't wish your name or e-mail address posted please say so and everything will be kept strictly confidential.

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